How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 09:57

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Why is going on a date today so much different than it was when I was young?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Making more friends is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
How do I overcome attachment issues?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
What is the story behind bhai dooj?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What type of crossdresser are you?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What I need from you?
What happens when you have paranoid schizophrenia?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
When a narcissist mad at their new supply, do they take it out on the old supply?
Does not procrastinate.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
How do I develop the patience to read books?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
How safe is it to travel to Kashmir in 2024?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Do not set goals—set systems.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
What can I say to a scammer who thinks he loves me, but I don't want to be scammed?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
That's it for today.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
What caused the stock market to crash?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Ask yourself:
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Why do guys have better skin than women even though women use more product?
Procrastinates a lot.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.